Personally, I'm in a committed, long-term relationship, so my time for using this sort of stuff is behind me. However, I've been watching 'The Pick Up Artist' on VH1 recently, and a lot of what was being said sparked my curiosity. I feel like I really missed the boat in my younger days, not realizing this sort of stuff was out there. I sort of just figured you either had it or you didn't. In reading up on 'Pickup Artist' material, I've found that it doesn't have to be a nightmare, and that, generally, the 'game' should have been a lot easier for me than it was.
I found this little blurb particularly entertaining:
Are you young & eligible types paying attention?
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I found this little blurb particularly entertaining:
Years ago, a woman asked me where I live.
I responded with, “Sorry sweetie… I think you're mistaking me for one of your neighbors from the trailer park you grew up in.”
She affectionately touched my arm and bantered back, “You're so mean!”
I playfully scolded her by saying, “This **** ain't for free.”
Laughing like a hyena, she responded with, “I love you.”
Then she wrapped her arms around my body, giving me a big bear hug.
But I didn't stop there. I amplified the sarcasm a notch with, “Stop treating me like a giant sausage with feet!”
Next… her hand went straight for my crotch.
I grabbed her and we started kissing.
Was this a fluke? Is this girl looser than Jenna Jameson?
Nope.
She was driven to act this way because of a key psychological mechanism… one that's out of her control… one that I'm going to share with you in a minute.
But first…
Here's a truism in our culture… The frame – or underlying meaning – of a man approaching a woman is that she is the Prize he is trying to win her over.
In plain English – the woman has more value than the man.
If you want to become a ladies' man, you've got to proactively do or say something in every interaction you have with a woman that changes the frame from her being the Prize to you being the Prize.
In the example above I accomplished this by responding to her question about where I live with, “Sorry sweetie… I think you're mistaking me for one of your neighbors from the trailer park you grew up in.”
Seems a bit harsh? Why didn't she walk away? Or slap me across the face?
First of all, this girl was dressed to nines. She mentioned going to an Ivy League college. It was obvious that she didn't grow up in a trailer or mobile home. She knew I was joking around with her.
Second… I said this to her in a sarcastic tone.
Thus… I got away with setting a very strong frame because I added a ton of humor.
She didn't perceive my comment as mean or manipulative.
Instead she saw it as charming and attractive and felt compelled to banter back.
Yet she still wanted to take back control of the frame (Though she found me charming and attractive, she wanted to get back her status as the Prize).
However… she couldn't think of a comeback.
So she touched my arm.
“Why?” you might be wondering.
Most women intuitively know… one of the fastest ways to take back control of being the Prize is to touch a man… because…
Most men think that when a woman touches them it means she's interested.
Many a man takes the bait by sticking his dirty little paws all over her.
She pulls back and – voilà – she's regained her status as the Prize the guy is desperately trying to win over.
But when you refrain from touching a woman and frame her touching you as meaning she's blatantly coming onto you, like I did in the example above, you maintain your status as the Prize she's trying to win over.
As a general rule: I usually don't touch a woman until she's touched me two to three times. If you give in after the first touch, you risk the frame reversing back to her being the Prize.
But after she's touched you several times, you can touch her back without losing the frame that you're the Prize.
So let's recap: When you're verbally bantering back-and-forth with a woman and she cannot think of a comeback or she realizes that you've outwitted her, she will invariably reach over and touch you. It's a sneaky attempt regaining her status as the Prize.
You might be thinking, "How in the world am I supposed to outwit every woman I desire?"
Easy. Wit is not an innate ability; it is learned.
Alas, it's not taught in school. Even worse, there are few places on this earth where you can learn this skill.
I went through most of my life thinking I was lumbered with a humorless wit.
But through a lot hard work and experimenting I've come up with a repeatable stucture that gives you the tools to out wit any woman.
I responded with, “Sorry sweetie… I think you're mistaking me for one of your neighbors from the trailer park you grew up in.”
She affectionately touched my arm and bantered back, “You're so mean!”
I playfully scolded her by saying, “This **** ain't for free.”
Laughing like a hyena, she responded with, “I love you.”
Then she wrapped her arms around my body, giving me a big bear hug.
But I didn't stop there. I amplified the sarcasm a notch with, “Stop treating me like a giant sausage with feet!”
Next… her hand went straight for my crotch.
I grabbed her and we started kissing.
Was this a fluke? Is this girl looser than Jenna Jameson?
Nope.
She was driven to act this way because of a key psychological mechanism… one that's out of her control… one that I'm going to share with you in a minute.
But first…
Here's a truism in our culture… The frame – or underlying meaning – of a man approaching a woman is that she is the Prize he is trying to win her over.
In plain English – the woman has more value than the man.
If you want to become a ladies' man, you've got to proactively do or say something in every interaction you have with a woman that changes the frame from her being the Prize to you being the Prize.
In the example above I accomplished this by responding to her question about where I live with, “Sorry sweetie… I think you're mistaking me for one of your neighbors from the trailer park you grew up in.”
Seems a bit harsh? Why didn't she walk away? Or slap me across the face?
First of all, this girl was dressed to nines. She mentioned going to an Ivy League college. It was obvious that she didn't grow up in a trailer or mobile home. She knew I was joking around with her.
Second… I said this to her in a sarcastic tone.
Thus… I got away with setting a very strong frame because I added a ton of humor.
She didn't perceive my comment as mean or manipulative.
Instead she saw it as charming and attractive and felt compelled to banter back.
Yet she still wanted to take back control of the frame (Though she found me charming and attractive, she wanted to get back her status as the Prize).
However… she couldn't think of a comeback.
So she touched my arm.
“Why?” you might be wondering.
Most women intuitively know… one of the fastest ways to take back control of being the Prize is to touch a man… because…
Most men think that when a woman touches them it means she's interested.
Many a man takes the bait by sticking his dirty little paws all over her.
She pulls back and – voilà – she's regained her status as the Prize the guy is desperately trying to win over.
But when you refrain from touching a woman and frame her touching you as meaning she's blatantly coming onto you, like I did in the example above, you maintain your status as the Prize she's trying to win over.
As a general rule: I usually don't touch a woman until she's touched me two to three times. If you give in after the first touch, you risk the frame reversing back to her being the Prize.
But after she's touched you several times, you can touch her back without losing the frame that you're the Prize.
So let's recap: When you're verbally bantering back-and-forth with a woman and she cannot think of a comeback or she realizes that you've outwitted her, she will invariably reach over and touch you. It's a sneaky attempt regaining her status as the Prize.
You might be thinking, "How in the world am I supposed to outwit every woman I desire?"
Easy. Wit is not an innate ability; it is learned.
Alas, it's not taught in school. Even worse, there are few places on this earth where you can learn this skill.
I went through most of my life thinking I was lumbered with a humorless wit.
But through a lot hard work and experimenting I've come up with a repeatable stucture that gives you the tools to out wit any woman.
Lots more at: http://www.seductiontuition.com/
Thoughts?
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