Women

[PdiddyPop]

Re: Women

In my experiences with women I've learned some things. First be confident about who you are, and don't try to act like someone you are not. You might get by with it for awhile, but if you really like a girl and she figures it out game over. Also if you are wanting a serious relationship don't try so damn hard to find one. If you just stay true to who you are someone will eventually come along, and BAM!!! There you go you got your serious relationship. Now if you are wanting to just have fun, and go on dates to have sex, or even just get better at understanding dating life hey if you want to be a jerk, or play the "game" go for it. Don't play the "game" for a serious relationship though, because as far as finding someone to spend the rest of your life with it's not a game it's reality.

[Lintyfresh85]

Re: Women

You can't change who you are.

I most certainly did... I went from the best friend role to the serious dating guy in less then two years in college because I stopped being indirect and I went after what I wanted.

After I realized that women weren't logical at all, and didn't realize what's best for them (a.k.a nice guys), I stopped playing Mr.nice and I got in on the game of being the prize and not letting the women be the prize.

I've come to the realization that as a whole, guys should be more marketable and more desirable then women. We make more money, we are physically stronger, possibly smarter, don't have insane jealously issues, and we age better. All things that make us the superior sex. Now of course I'd never tell that to a women, but trust me, I know it's true and every guy needs to know that we are dominant group here, not them.

But back to my original question.. how the heck do I keep the relationship interesting 4-5 months down the road? That's when it always seems to fizzle out. Do I keep playing games? I thought that was the point of a relationship... to stop playing games! Very frustrating.

[Husker_OS]

Re: Women

Graphik nailed it in his cuddle bitch post. Its not hard to avoid being the cuddle bitch. If she calls, just don't answer. Call her back later when its convenient for you. If she asks you to hang out, say you have other plans and that you'll hang out later. But do call her later to invite her to do something.


If you're always readily available to hang out with her, it makes you look as if you have no life. And that'll translate to "he's not fun" in her mind.



But all that is for picking up a girl that you just want to...well..casually date(if you know what I mean). If you want to pursue a relationship with a girl, you gotta be yourself. Like Graphik said, eventually that facade you put up is going to be end the relationship sooner than later.