Anyone try online dating sites?

[NDAlum]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

So like an absolute idiot, I went back again, and again things got interesting.

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Thursday night, I'm at work and she sends me a message saying that I should come drink with her, I ignore the first one, then she calls me and for whatever reason, I eventually decide I'll go, she's trying to tell me she's home alone but I can hear people in the background, then when she realizes they're being loud she says if I come over, she'll kick them out when I show up (spoiler: didn't happen). Show up, her and her female cousin from the first time come to the door together, and the cousin hugs me and starts calling me handsome and then kisses me on the cheek, the girl I'm actually hanging out with tells the cousin that she's the one I'm there to see, and she kisses me. After that we go into her apartment, and the friend from last weekend is there with her boyfriend (plus her kids are sleeping in the bedroom), we sit around drinking for a bit, then after a while the cousin starts getting a little "touchy" with me, she's trying to get close to me and ends up sitting right next to me, has her arms around me and is trying to show me whatever she was watching on her phone, girl I'm there with sees how close the cousin is getting and tells us that we should get another case of beer to share, which we do end up doing (but everybody ends up drinking it.) While we're drinking, the cousin keeps insisting that we share a beer, whatever.

The next morning, she asks if we can go for a drive to drop her kids off at her aunt's, I agree to it for whatever reason, so we drop them off, go back to her place, I leave and AGAIN tell myself I'm not going back, well I get home and look in the back seat of my car and her kids had left a couple things. Now I have to go back. So I just dropped the stuff off, she asks me if I have any beer this time, I say I don't and I can's stick around and then I leave, she messages me ~10 minutes later asking if I can come back and pick her up, again I say no, and that's the last I've heard (so far)

Still absolutely ridiculous, I'm aware. But I'm out for real this time.

EDIT: So the cousin just called me from the girl I'm with's* phone, asking me to come over.
*I only used with because I couldn't phrase it otherwise. (And it's still not even proper grammar )

EDIT 2: The friend added me on facebook now and is telling me that if I do go, it'll only be her (not sure about her boyfriend), and the cousin because the girl I'm talking to wanted to sleep for a bit..

NSFW answer...kinda

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Next time she contacts you sit in front of a computer and take care of business. Then think about the situation again. Guaranteed you don't care nearly as much about this trainwreck.

[mgoblue]

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Seriously....you do not want some accident to link you with one of these women for life....

[Phobia]

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Dude, you need to to drop contact with this chick. From everything you said, she's just using you for free drinks, and a personal taxi.

I think he should continue seeing her..............

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I enjoy reading about it

[jeremym480]

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I'm going to need a pic of ole girl and the cousin before giving any advice on this situation.

[mgoblue]

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I'm going to need a pic of ole girl and the cousin before giving any advice on this situation.

This, that would increase the awesomeness of the situation.

[Mabster]

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I'm going to need a pic of ole girl and the cousin before giving any advice on this situation.

I just assumed they had to be elevens.

[Madman55]

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I think he should continue seeing her..............

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I enjoy reading about it

Give me some funding and I'll go every weekend. I could start an OS adventure story of sorts.

Seriously though, all I've gotten out of this disaster is a funny(?) story.

[ODogg]

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To be fair to this girl though, she stays sober when she has her kids. When we were at her friends place, the friend has a daughter (probably about 3 or 4) who was there, and the 3 of them (girl I was with, friend, and friends boyfriend) were all doing various drugs in the bathroom. I just realized that means when I was drunk and yelling at swearing at her, there was a kid in the apartment, which is just embarrassing for me, but I'm sure there's been worse things happening around there.

is that the girl in your profile pic? if so, hell she may be worth it!!

[Fresh Tendrils]

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Give me some funding and I'll go every weekend. I could start an OS adventure story of sorts.

Seriously though, all I've gotten out of this disaster is a funny(?) story.

[seasprite]

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Give me some funding and I'll go every weekend. I could start an OS adventure story of sorts.

Seriously though, all I've gotten out of this disaster is a funny(?) story.

You should probably consider yourself lucky that a funny story is all you got. You could have gotten the gift that keeps on giving................

[Madman55]

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is that the girl in your profile pic? if so, hell she may be worth it!!

If only... She could take advantage of me all she wanted.

Tell me you didn't get a laugh out of this whole debacle.

You should probably consider yourself lucky that a funny story is all you got. You could have gotten the gift that keeps on giving................

Yea. I'm lucky in that way. It's weird to be hanging out with 3 attractive, single ladies and not want to get in with any of them.

[Redacted01]

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Yea. I'm lucky in that way. It's weird to be hanging out with 3 attractive, single ladies and not want to get in with any of them.

No it's not. There is a reason this exists.

[Fresh Tendrils]

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Tell me you didn't get a laugh out of this whole debacle.

Me? Yes, of course. Putting myself in your shoes, however, and it quickly becomes a string of nightmare dating situations.

[XtremeDunkz]

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I would have given up after the first encounter.

[seasprite]

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Having a ton of success on Match right now. My dance card has been full for the last 3 weeks. Just trying to technically stay single until Christmas is over because you know, I like money lol