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  • Marino
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    • Jan 2008
    • 18113

    #556
    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

    Just talk on the phone, I know a lot of girls think it is important to her how a person talks before actually meeting them.

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    • SuperBowlNachos
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      • Jul 2004
      • 10218

      #557
      Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

      Why would you not give her your number?

      Just plug in headphones so you can hear better. You get louder volume and have it coming through both ears, then just hold the phone like a microphone.

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      • DukeC
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        • Jul 2011
        • 5751

        #558
        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

        Originally posted by Happy29
        Well the girl I have been talking to hasn't messaged me in a few days then tonight she sends me a message and says her little girl has been sick which I understand having kids myself, but she said she wants to give me a call tomorrow. What you guys think should I give her my number?

        Edit and she said she loves talking on the phone and that is one thing I can not stand is talking on a phone.
        I feel like I know why (as I too can't stand talking on the phone for any period longer than a couple of minutes). Is it because you'd just rather talk in person?

        I don't know. Too me, a phone call feels so...impersonal.

        But, yeah, you should definitely give her your number though.You never know. This might be the one chick you might find worth talking on the phone with.

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        • cubsfan203
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          • Jun 2004
          • 6689

          #559
          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

          Talking on the phone gets you bonus points though, because I'm pretty sure most guys don't like to. Like Duke said, it is less personal than in person, but when you compare that to just texting/messaging like the majority of your competition does then if you can hold a conversation and make her laugh on the phone you just moved yourself above them.

          It works well especially if it's when you first try to meet up with somewhere. It's a lot harder to say no talking to someone than texting. Plus if she beats around the bush then you know she isn't really interested so you don't waste your time.
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          • Happy29
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            • Jan 2006
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            #560
            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

            Originally posted by DukeC
            I feel like I know why (as I too can't stand talking on the phone for any period longer than a couple of minutes). Is it because you'd just rather talk in person?

            I don't know. Too me, a phone call feels so...impersonal.

            But, yeah, you should definitely give her your number though.You never know. This might be the one chick you might find worth talking on the phone with.
            That's it I don't like talking on the phone at all I'd rather have a face to face conversation. I gave her my number though so we'll see what happens.
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            • CMH
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              • Oct 2002
              • 26203

              #561
              Originally posted by Happy29
              That's it I don't like talking on the phone at all I'd rather have a face to face conversation. I gave her my number though so we'll see what happens.
              Yeah you gotta eat it. I hate the phone too but many women find it important.

              You talk for a bit. Just get information across. Use it as an opportunity to set a face-to-face date rather than time for her to reveal her deepest secrets or know everything about you.

              That's how I've done it. I ask the general how she's been. Ask about her day. And then go straight to talking about the first date. When she agrees on everything, you make it seem as if the mission has been accomplished. She likely won't mind. More likely she just wants to hear how you sound and speak.


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              • Happy29
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                • Jan 2006
                • 5488

                #562
                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                Originally posted by CMH
                Yeah you gotta eat it. I hate the phone too but many women find it important.

                You talk for a bit. Just get information across. Use it as an opportunity to set a face-to-face date rather than time for her to reveal her deepest secrets or know everything about you.

                That's how I've done it. I ask the general how she's been. Ask about her day. And then go straight to talking about the first date. When she agrees on everything, you make it seem as if the mission has been accomplished. She likely won't mind. More likely she just wants to hear how you sound and speak.


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                Opening a response with that in a thread about dating sent my mind straight to the gutter.
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                • rangerrick012
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                  • Jan 2010
                  • 6201

                  #563
                  Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                  OK so I did the thing on OKCupid to get A List for a month. I just don't know what it's supposed to do/help me with. Any tips?
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                  • Candyman5
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                    • Nov 2006
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                    #564
                    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                    Im posting my profile. Be gentle but maybe you guys can see if there is anything on my profile that I shouldnt have on it.

                    http://www.okcupid.com/profile
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                    • TMagic
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                      • Apr 2007
                      • 7550

                      #565
                      Originally posted by rangerrick012
                      OK so I did the thing on OKCupid to get A List for a month. I just don't know what it's supposed to do/help me with. Any tips?
                      Let us know if you get more hits/views/messages being on the A List...I know that Im really curious about that. Also if you seem to be seeing more attractive women popping up.
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                      • LowerWolf
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                        • Jun 2006
                        • 12263

                        #566
                        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                        Came across an obviously fake profile last night, so I sent a message saying something like "Nice fake profile." Got a reply back today "Thank you for the very nice message. I would like to get to know you better."

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                        • Sandman42
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                          • Aug 2004
                          • 15186

                          #567
                          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                          Originally posted by Candyman5
                          Im posting my profile. Be gentle but maybe you guys can see if there is anything on my profile that I shouldnt have on it.

                          http://www.okcupid.com/profile
                          That's going to take everyone to their own profile. When you go to your profile, click the about tab and then copy that url it should be okcupid.com/profile/username.

                          Originally posted by LowerWolf
                          Came across an obviously fake profile last night, so I sent a message saying something like "Nice fake profile." Got a reply back today "Thank you for the very nice message. I would like to get to know you better."
                          Scammer. They are everywhere whenever I go to the moderation page on OKC.
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                          • SuperBowlNachos
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                            • Jul 2004
                            • 10218

                            #568
                            Originally posted by rangerrick012
                            OK so I did the thing on OKCupid to get A List for a month. I just don't know what it's supposed to do/help me with. Any tips?
                            You can make one of your search options body type. Thus cutting out body types you are not a fan of. That is the reason I signed up. Plus you don't show as having visiting a page unless you tell it to.

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                            • Fresh Tendrils
                              Strike Hard and Fade Away
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 36131

                              #569
                              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                              How much is A-List? 15 a month?



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                              • LowerWolf
                                Hall Of Fame
                                • Jun 2006
                                • 12263

                                #570
                                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                                Originally posted by Fresh Tendrils
                                How much is A-List? 15 a month?
                                Yup ... or free if you follow the link Sandman posted a few pages back.

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