Females In Relationships That Wear Skimpy Clothing

[JBH3]

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i dont think checking your woman so shes not flaunting her T&A to every other man has anythign to do with being insecure as a man.

Its about her respect to the man.

I personally dont date girls who dress like street whores...
And i definitely wouldnt want my "girl" dressing like that...if its anyone im coo with intially she would know never to disrespect me like that to begin with though

Respect or double standard? Surely the way we dress is not indicative of our behavior/character is it? Why stop there, why not just make assumptions about people based on their skin color?

Now...as for women dressing scantilly clad...if it's not for you than don't approach those women. Look at the candy, but don't try to taste because it may get sour in time i.e. DC trying to change someone under the ruse of "relationship sacrifice".

If you do "taste" i.e. date this person than you should be ok w/ her dressing "sexy" since it was on those same grounds in which you met. If you however end up having issues w/ it, and expect change and the woman doesn't want to change than take it on the chin and move on.

DC, future, , KG, THM, and GSW spittin' that true knowledge in here. Imma try what future said out the next time I go out to the club lol.

But ill just say what one of my homeboys told me a while back:

"If the ***** wants to dress like a $100 ho, then that's exactly what imma treat her *** like. A ho".

So if my woman were to come out dressed like that(wouldn't be my girl anyway if I knew this was how she dressed from the start)but I definitely let her know to get her *** back upstairs and change clothes because she wouldn't come out the house with me looking like that.

Hey...can a woman tell you how to dress?

If she says tuck your shirt in, buy some dress shoes and stop wearing Jordans all the damn time, I hate your chain get rid of it, take the doorag off when we're out in public, get some jeans that fit please and use a damn belt, GROW UP!

I think it was DC who posted a thread on dress code at work. Can't quite remember the details, but if he was having an issue w/ "conforming" to the requirements of appearance for his job than I doubt he do so w/ the tables turned in a relationship. But why have to right...I mean the man is the leader and dictator of the relationship and we can do whatever we want. SMH.

I swear, reading some of these off-topic threads at OS make me (normally an anti-politically correct person) feel like a paragon of liberalness.

QFT.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Hey...can a woman tell you how to dress?

If she says tuck your shirt in, buy some dress shoes and stop wearing Jordans all the damn time, I hate your chain get rid of it, take the doorag off when we're out in public, get some jeans that fit please and use a damn belt, GROW UP!

Well speaking for myself, none of the above don't/haven't applied to me and have never had a woman tell me how to dress since I've never allowed myself to be put in a situation for a woman to even TELL me HOW to dress.

I swear, reading some of these off-topic threads at OS make me (normally an anti-politically correct person) feel like a paragon of liberalness.

Funny how I feel the opposite. But I guess that's probably because I don't show the willingness to join some of you in the perfect world you reside in where things like this never happen.

[DC]

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DC trying to change someone under the ruse of "relationship sacrifice".

I am? Where did you read that? Or did you even read the first post?

[DC]

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Folks "suggest" changes to their s/o all the damn time. Compromise........changing for them. You pick the language. It is all the same thing. Folks SHOULD change when they get into a relationship. Point blank.

[JBH3]

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Well speaking for myself, none of the above don't/haven't applied to me and have never had a woman tell me how to dress since I've never allowed myself to be put in a situation for a woman to even TELL me HOW to dress.

Oh...welllll in that case, you keep them women in check pimpin. SMH.

I am? Where did you read that? Or did you even read the first post?

Your post and back and forth w/ Sandman is what I was referring to.

[JBH3]

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Folks "suggest" changes to their s/o all the damn time. Compromise........changing for them. You pick the language. It is all the same thing. Folks SHOULD change when they get into a relationship. Point blank.

That's just it...they "suggest"...you're like the woman that is trying to turn the gay dude into a heteromale.

You knew going into it she dressed "provactively". You met her in the club or at some party like that, and then she continued to dress that way and you were in the beginning, either to focused on her goodies to not care that she flaunted it, or didn't care to begin with.

Now that you're getting serious w/ her and can't feel comfortable taking her to the company Christmas party to meet your boss you're upset. Well this is the bed you made. Either you accept it, or state your issue and if I guess you're worth it to her to change herself than she will follow suit. Otherwise you ain't worth it, and should post.

[muggins]

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Folks "suggest" changes to their s/o all the damn time. Compromise........changing for them. You pick the language. It is all the same thing. Folks SHOULD change when they get into a relationship. Point blank.

The point is compromise isn't just a one way street. You don't get married or "go steady" with a woman and suddenly tell her how to live. I certainly enjoyed my bachelorhood - I could do whatever I want, whenever I wanted.

I used to come home and just relax after work and play video games for 5 hours. I realize I can't do that anymore. My wife was a little upset at the beginning because I was gaming too much. If you talked to a lot of "females" they'd say "A grown man shouldn't play video games!"

I realized I was spending too much time playing video games, so I changed my ways a bit. If she had her way I wouldn't play video games at all. Instead I set up some guidelines.

I tell her if I plan on doing something (like last night I had planned a Forza race night with some buddies) or if I need to play my Madden online franchise game, etc. Obviously I can't just tell her everyday that I want to play Madden all night. We have responsibilities and she still wants me to hang out with her.

[DC]

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I never implied that compromise was a one way street though.

[pfunk880]

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Funny. I don't know if they will change but yea they will be pissed. But I blame that on women not having anything tangible to compete in. Yea they can try and out dress or out-beauty other women but unlike men women don't have much to compete against each other in.

So they do these things

Not like having children, or being successful at work, or being successful in academics, or playing sports, or numerous other activities?

I swear, reading some of these off-topic threads at OS make me (normally an anti-politically correct person) feel like a paragon of liberalness.

I feel the exact same way on that one.

Folks "suggest" changes to their s/o all the damn time. Compromise........changing for them. You pick the language. It is all the same thing. Folks SHOULD change when they get into a relationship. Point blank.

Except you're neglecting to mention that compromise is a two-way street.

You both make changes and meet in the middle.

[DC]

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When I said FOLKS suggest, I would think I was implying that it can come from all angle. All of you seem to have missed that. I will be more specific next time and not assume that you understand what I am saying from the jump

[pfunk880]

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I never implied that compromise was a one way street though.

Considering how many people seem to think you feel this way, maybe you need to choose your words a little more carefully.

Whether you are meaning to imply it or not, it seems like many of us are getting that feeling. Could have something to do with the tone you've conveyed in your multitude of previous relationship threads.

[muggins]

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I never implied that compromise was a one way street though.

Yeah you did.

Like I said man. The word compromise is a nice way of saying, "Change your ways since _____ reason/person doesn't like it."

[pfunk880]

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So my question for you, have you every just "took an L" when it came to situations like this? Your woman wearing clothes that you damn sure don't want her wearing but for the sake of NOT appearing to too controlling, you just kept your mouth shut?

I wouldn't date her in the first place. Problem solved...

[LtGen]

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I wouldn't date her in the first place. Problem solved...

That's what I was getting at when I said I stay away from those types. Like somebody said,you can't turn a ho into a housewife.

[pfunk880]

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That's what I was getting at when I said I stay away from those types. Like somebody said,you can't turn a ho into a housewife.

Exactly... doomed from the start.