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  • GAMEC0CK2002
    Stayin Alive
    • Aug 2002
    • 10384

    #106
    Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

    Originally posted by NDAlum
    I think looks are more important in online dating than real life.
    Agree with this.

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    • Dog
      aka jnes12/JNes__
      • Aug 2008
      • 11846

      #107
      Its nice that I'm not the only one who has met their significant other online. All these years I thought I was weird

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      • NDAlum
        ND
        • Jun 2010
        • 11453

        #108
        Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

        Originally posted by jnes12eaglesfan
        Its nice that I'm not the only one who has met their significant other online. All these years I thought I was weird

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        I fail to see how this rules out you being weird.

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        • Dog
          aka jnes12/JNes__
          • Aug 2008
          • 11846

          #109
          Originally posted by NDAlum
          I fail to see how this rules out you being weird.

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          • Jonesy
            All Star
            • Feb 2003
            • 5382

            #110
            Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

            Originally posted by NDAlum
            I think looks are more important in online dating than real life.
            Agreed. The pics of yourself you put up are very important.

            A lady at my work tried online dating and it wasn't working for her and we are pretty good friends so she asked me to check out her page to see what i thought. The photo's she had up there were hopeless and really didn't make her seem as attractive as she really was. No wonder she wasn't getting any hits / requests etc.

            I told her to take some better pics and within days she was getting WAY more dudes contacting her and she met her current boyfriend of 1.5 years within a month.

            You have to be careful of the people using 'false advertising' on online dating sites posting crazy angles etc to try and hide there true looks like this:

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            • youvalss
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              • Feb 2007
              • 16601

              #111
              Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

              I actually never put any picture of myself on these websites. If someone contacted me, we would start talking on MSN and then I may send a pic. It is very important, but it's the same whenever you meet someone in real life. Unless you know her before the date, anyway the first thing you look at is the way she looks. It's not like someone goes to a bar and doesn't focus first on the looks.
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              • mgoblue
                Go Wings!
                • Jul 2002
                • 25477

                #112
                Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                9 months strong with my GF, she actually moved in with me over 2 weeks ago (maybe a little soon, but it made sense and it's worked out great).

                We met on eHarmony...I don't mind telling people we met online, and nowadays a lot of people are trying it so it's way less of a taboo than the past where all you had was the creepy chat rooms and all that.

                I just see online dating as a way to introduce me to people I'd otherwise never meet...once you get past that you meet and see attraction to each other in person, how you talk/get along, personality, etc. Once you meet it stops being online and becomes regular dating like everything else.

                I hate meeting people at bars, and otherwise it's kinda tough to meet people through friends and activities once you get past college. More and more people are in relationships and the singles pool goes down. Maybe my social networks weren't as good as some people, but online really helped me out.

                My GF can deal with my gaming at times, my stupid humor, etc...I can't complain! I don't have to be a different person around her, and I know a lot of people who do that around a significant other (if that makes sense). I don't censor myself at all lol
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                • CMH
                  Making you famous
                  • Oct 2002
                  • 26203

                  #113
                  Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                  Originally posted by mgoblue
                  9 months strong with my GF, she actually moved in with me over 2 weeks ago (maybe a little soon, but it made sense and it's worked out great).

                  We met on eHarmony...I don't mind telling people we met online, and nowadays a lot of people are trying it so it's way less of a taboo than the past where all you had was the creepy chat rooms and all that.

                  I just see online dating as a way to introduce me to people I'd otherwise never meet...once you get past that you meet and see attraction to each other in person, how you talk/get along, personality, etc. Once you meet it stops being online and becomes regular dating like everything else.

                  I hate meeting people at bars, and otherwise it's kinda tough to meet people through friends and activities once you get past college. More and more people are in relationships and the singles pool goes down. Maybe my social networks weren't as good as some people, but online really helped me out.

                  My GF can deal with my gaming at times, my stupid humor, etc...I can't complain! I don't have to be a different person around her, and I know a lot of people who do that around a significant other (if that makes sense). I don't censor myself at all lol
                  Glad to hear this is working out for you. I seem to recall you talking about trying eHarmony or something similar. 9 months is long these days. Hopefully, it continues to work out great for the both of you.
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                  • ProfessaPackMan
                    Bamma
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 63852

                    #114
                    Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                    Lil Bentley's story(aka Buckeyes_Doc)is still hilarious reading it again.

                    Ahhh I miss these good old DC Threads on here.
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                    • the_future420
                      MVP
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 3086

                      #115
                      I really don't have a problem with telling people about it. I've met chicks on facebook/myspace, clubs, work, standing on the bus stop, partylines, etc. one of the girls imtalking to right now I met on facebook. We happened to go to the same college a few years back although we never saw each other there. She tells her people that's where we met, but I just tell my people that we met on facebook. Doesn't bother me.

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                      • the_future420
                        MVP
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 3086

                        #116
                        To add though, it would be kinda weird if you ONLY met people online...that could mean you need to get out more. I couldn't see myself using a serious dating site to meet someone either like eharmony or match.com. I prefer facebook/myspace (back when it was cracking) just because you get a better idea of the person by their updates, etc.

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                        • dan_457
                          MVP
                          • Jan 2010
                          • 4106

                          #117
                          Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                          Originally posted by ProfessaPackMan
                          Lil Bentley's story(aka Buckeyes_Doc)is still hilarious reading it again.

                          Ahhh I miss these good old DC Threads on here.
                          That was a really cool story, and it's funny when you think about it, all it takes is one small, at the time seemingly insignificant moment to change your life forever. Crazyness.
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                          • randombrother
                            Banned
                            • Oct 2009
                            • 1275

                            #118
                            Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                            Originally posted by Apostle
                            There's more to the story but that's the short version -- I never felt the need to get online and hit up dating sites because finding girls was never a big problem for me, but the way all that unfolded was pretty cool.
                            TRANSLATION: I was desperate for some bunz. I was hitting up any and every site to get laid. When all else failed I lucked up on some tang through a friend. LOL
                            Just kidding. Cool story man.

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                            • youvalss
                              ******
                              • Feb 2007
                              • 16601

                              #119
                              Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                              If there wasn't internet, I'd probably be single(/virgin) for the rest of my life. I just never was the person to meet girls any other way.

                              Wow, saying this feels like getting out of the closet...
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                              • NDAlum
                                ND
                                • Jun 2010
                                • 11453

                                #120
                                Re: Those That Have Met Your Wife/GF On The Internet, Were You Embarrased To Tell....

                                Originally posted by youvalss
                                If there wasn't internet, I'd probably be single(/virgin) for the rest of my life. I just never was the person to meet girls any other way.

                                Wow, saying this feels like getting out of the closet...
                                There's a reason there are so many sites for dating...there are many people like you.
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