Lady Advice

[Mike Lowe]

Re: Lady Advice

I dont know, Altimus. I wouldn't give up on her just yet. Just be patient. Maybe shoot her a text telling her that you hope everything is ok. Just keep that connection because you never know when she'll finally give in. Let her know that you are interested in potentially dating her (subtlely), but don't be too over anxious. I would let her know that it wasn't too cool what she did to you, but be understanding.

This is not going to help; she has no reason to change if he allows himself to stay on the back burner. A woman MUST know/believe their losing their grip, even on a subconscious level. If she cares, he might get lucky. If she doesn't, he loses nothing, especially not his time and heartache.

Only 3 things can happen in this and only one of them is "getting the girl." The other two are by far the most likely candidates at this point and they are:
1) Forget it and move on
2) Keep slight contact only to be dragged along further and further until you finally decide #1 was the best option. She will drag you as far as you allow her.

[TarHeelMan]

Re: Lady Advice

Disinterest goes a long way towards letting them know that they're not at the top of your priority list. I would always appear disinterested with a female, especially one that thought she was the one "running game". So if she does hit you up with a text, don't respond right away. If you chat with her, don't spill ya guts trying to make up for lost time. If a female is really trying to get in good with you, she'll work hard for it. If she's not willing to put in the effort to make it worth your while for you to open up your full attention, then she does YOU a favor by effectively canceling herself out.