Cheating

[Husker_OS]

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Props to myself for posting twice and not once about the subject at hand.

[TracerBullet]

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Props to myself for posting twice and not once about the subject at hand.

And about the Cubs winning no less .

[PhilliesFan13]

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I have never cheated on anyone nor ever thought about cheating on anyone. I've been with my wife for 5 years, married for 3, and never once thought about cheating on her. It's something I would never do. It's disgraceful.

I have been cheated on, though, so I know what it feels like. I could never bring myself to make someone feel that way. Before I met my wife, I was in a relationship with a girl for 4 years and she cheated on me near the end of it. It sucked.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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I could never do it. The temptation might be there, but to actually do it? No.

IMO, retaliation cheating is just as wrong. Just because you got cheated on gives you the "green light" to. Either forgive and forget or give the cheater their walking papers.

[12]

We're men. IMO, you are completely normal.

I have thoughts that I wish I didn't have about all kinds of things, but I won't act on those thoughts.

[ubernoob]

Anyone that cheats (male/female) is a disgraceful, weak willed, cowardly pile. Looking is one thing, but if you have feelings of cheating that you act on? Grow a pair. If you don't wanna be with your partner then just tell them.

Its really not that hard.

[TMagic]

Anybody finding that more and more chicks are becoming accepting of us cheating?

I swear I've heard girls say, "As long as I dont know." way more than I would have expected.

Its not just coming from girls my age either. I train, so a lot of my clients are middle aged, and I've heard it from them too.

[kingkilla56]

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Yeah "as long as I dont know" my ***. Ive heard of girls being open about it and accepting bing in an open relationship. But that line is some bull****.

In my experience college girls are willing to put up with some strange relationships. The older they get the less they put up with.


But on topic, I wouldnt cheat on someone I was with. Its a coward thing to do unless you two have an understanding/arrangment on it. But if you are deceiving you are a coward. Just end it.

[JODYE]

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I could never bring myself to cheat.

Hell, me and my ex broke up and a week later I hooked up with a girl I went to school with, and I STILL felt guilty because I still wasn't over her.

I can only imagine the guilt I would feel if I was actually still with someone and did that.

No chance for me. If I'm unhappy in a relationship, I'm open about it. No need to sneak around and be a coward. Plus, I'm a firm believer in karma. You do that, and it will come back to you tenfold.

[C the Lyte]

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Anyone that cheats (male/female) is a disgraceful, weak willed, cowardly pile. Looking is one thing, but if you have feelings of cheating that you act on? Grow a pair. If you don't wanna be with your partner then just tell them.

Its really not that hard.

I think thats the problem. More and more ppl are weaker willed, or weak minded, than in past years.

Anybody finding that more and more chicks are becoming accepting of us cheating?

I swear I've heard girls say, "As long as I dont know." way more than I would have expected.

Its not just coming from girls my age either. I train, so a lot of my clients are middle aged, and I've heard it from them too.

That's not good for us "Good guys".

[dsallupinyaarea]

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You guys act like breaking up with a woman is as easy as calling her up, saying "I don't love you anymore" and hanging up the phone. It isn't nearly as black and white as you're making it. Tons of variables involved. I'm not justifying cheating, it's wrong, but come on now.

Of note: I've never technically cheated but there have been some quick turnarounds after a break up that may or may not have been in the works beforehand.

[ubernoob]

It is that easy if you cheat. If you love her enough to cheat on her, you love her enough to break up with her.

Saying its not that easy is a cop out, and a way to deflect feelings of guilt

[dsallupinyaarea]

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It is that easy if you cheat. If you love her enough to cheat on her, you love her enough to break up with her.

Saying its not that easy is a cop out, and a way to deflect feelings of guilt

I hear you, but have you ever had to break up with a woman that's in love with you? They don't just ride off into the sunset.

[ubernoob]

I hear you, but have you ever had to break up with a woman that's in love with you? They don't just ride off into the sunset.

That's their issue then. If you don't want to break up with them, then be a man and don't cheat.

If you do want to, just two them it's over and don't lead them on. Yeah it sucks, but you live with your choices. Doing it any other way is just taking the east way because you don't want to do it right.

[TheShizNo1]

I hear you, but have you ever had to break up with a woman that's in love with you? They don't just ride off into the sunset.

I literally drug one of my exes across the floor when trying to leave her. Didn't drag her by choice. She grabbed by forearm, sat down, and wouldn't let go.

Same thing happened to my best friend w/ one of his exes.

I cheated on that ex. Didn't really feel bad. Only time I've ever cheated. Admittedly, my mind was nowhere near in the right place at the time. We broke up in 09. For two years, she'd randomly show up at my job or apartment. **** was crazy.