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  • mgoblue
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    • Jul 2002
    • 25477

    #1786
    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

    Originally posted by SinisterAlex
    Need some opinions from you fine gentlemen.

    The last week and a half I have been talking to this one girl I met on POF. We talked on POF for about 3 days then exchanged phone numbers. We've been texting each other ever since then. This morning I got a message from another girl on POF and we've been chatting the last few hours.

    Here's the dilemma. If talks with this second girl go the same way as the first, how and what would you do in my situation when you're actively talking with two women? I haven't meet the first in person yet but we have exchanged numbers and I feel the same may happen with second.

    Opinions?
    Originally posted by Fresh Tendrils
    Meet the girls first and then go from there.
    Fresh Tendrils is right. When I was on eHarmony I'd be going on multiple dates and talking to multiple women at once. You won't know about anyone until you meet them. Talking on the phone is one thing, but when you meet in person you both learn if you're attracted to each other and all that.

    You're not exclusive with anyone, I'd be honest if one of them asks, but I wouldn't go into details unless necessary...eventually you may decide to go exclusive, but that's your choice.
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    • HarkTheSound
      MVP
      • Dec 2007
      • 1167

      #1787
      Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

      Just wanted to come in here and say the Swanson and grape juice line has worked better than anything else I've tried...Gotten 3 or 4 numbers the first week or so that I used it.

      It's also a great way to eliminate girls from the get-go, because you'll be able to tell if they have a sense of humor or not in the way that they respond to it. Which in my case, is a pretty big deal. Thanks again, OS.
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      • countryboy
        Growing pains
        • Sep 2003
        • 52707

        #1788
        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

        Originally posted by SinisterAlex
        Need some opinions from you fine gentlemen.

        The last week and a half I have been talking to this one girl I met on POF. We talked on POF for about 3 days then exchanged phone numbers. We've been texting each other ever since then. This morning I got a message from another girl on POF and we've been chatting the last few hours.

        Here's the dilemma. If talks with this second girl go the same way as the first, how and what would you do in my situation when you're actively talking with two women? I haven't meet the first in person yet but we have exchanged numbers and I feel the same may happen with second.

        Opinions?
        Go out with both of them. Just because you exchange numbers, or even hang out doesn't equate to a serious relationship.

        chances are, you're not the only guy they are talking with or hanging out with.
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        • TripleCrown9
          Keep the Faith
          • May 2010
          • 23669

          #1789
          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

          I just want to say that Zoosk is pretty stupid. "Hey, there's a couple really cute girls that sent you a message. Oh, you wanted to read the messages? Well you're gonna need to give us some money for that."

          **** you, Zoosk.
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          • LowerWolf
            Hall Of Fame
            • Jun 2006
            • 12268

            #1790
            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

            I decided to give Match a shot. And I feel like it's a little bit shady.

            I created a free profile and had a reasonably attractive woman initiate contact with me. So I subscribed so I could write back. Never heard from her after I subscribed.

            Started messaging with another woman right before my subscription ended. I renewed to keep it going. Haven't heard from her since renewing.

            Probably coincidence, but still ...

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            • jeremym480
              Speak it into existence
              • Oct 2008
              • 18198

              #1791
              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

              Match is definitely shady.... I signed up a little over 6 years ago and met a pretty girl... I haven't been able to get rid of her since. Be very careful, my friend!
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              • Fresh Tendrils
                Strike Hard and Fade Away
                • Jul 2002
                • 36131

                #1792
                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                Originally posted by jeremym480
                Match is definitely shady.... I signed up a little over 6 years ago and met a pretty girl... I haven't been able to get rid of her since. Be very careful, my friend!
                They're the worst, Jeremy. The worst.



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                • Zer0xray
                  MVP
                  • Sep 2002
                  • 1532

                  #1793
                  Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                  Originally posted by jeremym480
                  Match is definitely shady.... I signed up a little over 6 years ago and met a pretty girl... I haven't been able to get rid of her since. Be very careful, my friend!
                  Did you marry her? Lolol

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                  • jeremym480
                    Speak it into existence
                    • Oct 2008
                    • 18198

                    #1794
                    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                    Originally posted by Zer0xray
                    Did you marry her? Lolol

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                    • SuperBowlNachos
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                      • Jul 2004
                      • 10218

                      #1795
                      Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                      I've been dating a girl exclusively I met on OKC since late June, but I am thinking I might have to break it off. We have fun when we are hanging out and enjoy each others company, but I think we have too different of views for the future. We've actually gotten into an argument about if we are sending our kids to private school -_-. There are other concerns I have like the amount of debt she has and the fact she can't go more than two days without a drink.

                      The bad part is her parents are flying down from Wisconsin to see her and meet me in two weekends. The weekend after that we are supposed to fly to Missouri for a wedding which I bought a plane ticket for (flying Spirit so it was under $100 round trip at least). Wondering if I do break it off if I should wait until all of that is over or do it days before her parents get here.

                      It's probably a bad sign I am thinking about it...
                      Last edited by SuperBowlNachos; 09-10-2014, 12:48 PM.

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                      • countryboy
                        Growing pains
                        • Sep 2003
                        • 52707

                        #1796
                        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                        Originally posted by SuperBowlNachos
                        I've been dating a girl exclusively I met on OKC since late June, but I am thinking I might have to break it off. We have fun when we are hanging out and enjoy each others company, but I think we have too different of views for the future. We've actually gotten into an argument about if we are sending our kids to private school -_-. There are other concerns I have like the amount of debt she has and the fact she can't go more than two days without a drink.

                        The bad part is her parents are flying down from Wisconsin to see her and meet me in two weekends. The weekend after that we are supposed to fly to Missouri for a wedding which I bought a plane ticket for (flying Spirit so it was under $100 round trip at least). Wondering if I do break it off if I should wait until all of that is over or do it days before her parents get here.

                        It's probably a bad sign I am thinking about it...
                        You should break it off now. You are thinking about it and it seems as though your mind is already made up. waiting until after all of that happens is only going to make it worse.
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                        • MrOctober430
                          MVP
                          • May 2005
                          • 1694

                          #1797
                          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                          I only get messages from girls from 18-21.

                          Not a bad thing, I'm 25, but I'm usually looking for between 24-30.

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                          • Scott
                            Your Go-to TV Expert
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 20030

                            #1798
                            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                            I met my wife off OKC and she told me she would get literally 100 messages a day...
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                            • seasprite
                              Phenom
                              • Jul 2008
                              • 8984

                              #1799
                              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                              Have been dating a girl for 2 months who I met off of POF. No plans for any of that marriage crap or anything like that for a long time, but I can honestly say that pof worked for me. Was able to find a girl with the perfect 3 things I need.......hawtness, Vol fan, and Eagles fan. Had to go through a mile of **** on that site to find it, but its out there.






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                              • Zer0xray
                                MVP
                                • Sep 2002
                                • 1532

                                #1800
                                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                                May I ask if you guys are living in a big city? I figured that was kind of a factor. Also it seems crazy that match.com is the goto site now. Years ago it was eharmony

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