Lady Advice

[kingkilla56]

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The BK in Kimmel? Every time I went there this year there was a bald dude working there lol

Nah It was Goldstein on South. She got transferred to Shine last semester. My roommates would never let it down when we found out she had a kid.

Kimmel is too deep. I was always too lazy to walk there instead of just going to Shine or just going back to South.

[Yeah...THAT Guy]

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Nah It was Goldstein on South. She got transferred to Shine last semester. My roommates would never let it down when we found out she had a kid.

Kimmel is too deep. I was always too lazy to walk there instead of just going to Shine or just going back to South.

Ah gotcha lol. I lived right next to Kimmel this past year and I'm living right between Ernie and Kimmel next year, so I went to Kimmel a lot lol.

[CMH]

I know a lot of younger girls don't like "nice guys", but it doesn't help to try to be something that you're not... hate seeing that.

There are too many people in this world to get Hung up pretending to be someone else to make them happy. You have to he happy with yourself too

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There's nice and there's allowing yourself to be pushed around. I think nice is good and does work but you can't let people abuse it.

But I agree. It's much more satisfying to immediately drop a girl who doesn't appreciate my kindness or requires I behave differently than to be different.


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[kingkilla56]

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^Being a nice guy isnt the death sentence. It's being a doormat that gets you in trouble. But yeah if someone is willing to take advantage of you for being nice, you dont really want to be near them anyway, girl or friend.

[AUChase]

There's nice and there's allowing yourself to be pushed around. I think nice is good and does work but you can't let people abuse it.

But I agree. It's much more satisfying to immediately drop a girl who doesn't appreciate my kindness or requires I behave differently than to be different.


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I can agree with this.

The girl I'm dating now likes me for being nice, because she has had nothing but *******s boyfriends.

Then again, I slow played it big time. When I finally asked her to go out with me, I could tell she had been wanting me to ask her for a few days. I purposely kept waiting.. I didn't want her to think I was that readily available.

Now she's asking me to do ****. We have went out a few times, but I have actually lied and made up plans to keep from going out too often. I like her, but I've been burnt before being the guy who is always right there waiting.. it ain't happening again.


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[Graphik]

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I can agree with this.

The girl I'm dating now likes me for being nice, because she has had nothing but *******s boyfriends.

Then again, I slow played it big time. When I finally asked her to go out with me, I could tell she had been wanting me to ask her for a few days. I purposely kept waiting.. I didn't want her to think I was that readily available.

Now she's asking me to do ****. We have went out a few times, but I have actually lied and made up plans to keep from going out too often. I like her, but I've been burnt before being the guy who is always right there waiting.. it ain't happening again.


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You're doing it right. Women are more compelled to chase after the guy who's seldom available compared to the guy who is always there.

[LowerWolf]

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^Being a nice guy isnt the death sentence. It's being a doormat that gets you in trouble. But yeah if someone is willing to take advantage of you for being nice, you dont really want to be near them anyway, girl or friend.

I learned this the hard way.

[Buckeyes_Doc]

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Nice to hear man. Yeah, we've only been together like half a year so far, but I can already tell that she's an extremely special person and I definitely want to wait the couple months that she'll be overseas to be able to be together again when she gets back, but I know it's going to suck while she's gone. Nice to hear it can be done.

Yea, it's tough and not everyone can do it but if you can it makes your relationship a lot stronger. The biggest thing you need is trust.

I've had many friends who are constantly worrying about what their significant others are doing and that's a miserable thing to do.

But it can definitely be done and it's been done many times. Best of luck to you man.

[Yeah...THAT Guy]

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Yea, it's tough and not everyone can do it but if you can it makes your relationship a lot stronger. The biggest thing you need is trust.

I've had many friends who are constantly worrying about what their significant others are doing and that's a miserable thing to do.

But it can definitely be done and it's been done many times. Best of luck to you man.

Thanks. Yeah, I definitely trust this one a helluva lot more than my last girlfriend. And I know she's head over heels for me and wants to stick it out, so we'll see how it goes. My last girlfriend went to a different school so I only saw her like once a month until summer vacation when we could be together, but this time I just have to get through the 4.5 months of her being in Turkey and then we should be in the clear as far as the whole separation thing goes.

[Altimus]

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Well, update time:

She got back to me Saturday and we're going out sometime this weekend. Win!

[jeremym480]

Well, update time:

She got back to me Saturday and we're going out sometime this weekend. Win!

Oh and you leave us hanging for three days before you tell us know? Pot meet kettle.

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[Graphik]

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Well, update time:

She got back to me Saturday and we're going out sometime this weekend. Win!

Awesome. Did she give you a reason for the lack of contact?

[Fresh Tendrils]

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Try and keep communication to a minimal until the date. No point in using your ammo for pregame.

[Altimus]

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Awesome. Did she give you a reason for the lack of contact?

Two, she was moving which I forgot. Oops and two she was having family trouble back home. She said she was about to fly back so it must have been pretty serious. I didn't get into specifics as I don't know her well info to get the full status report on that. Either way she seemed really apologetic so we're going to meet Sunday probably. Something small and then a walk and we'll see it how it goes from there.

[Altimus]

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Try and keep communication to a minimal until the date. No point in using your ammo for pregame.

We spent some time on the phone last night but this will at least give me a battle plan of what to talk about when we meet. I think this is my first date ever where I'm meeting someone before actually seeing them in person before.