Re: Tips On Getting A Girlfriend
Here's a tip...
Don't do it.
You're too young, focus on school and extra curriculars (sports, music, etc) things that can improve your chances of getting into a good school to further your education or at least open doors you wouldn't otherwise get to open.
I had a gf from my sophomore year of HS to my Junior year of college and looking back it was nothing but missed opportunities and time wasted. When we started dating we were too young to think anything other than "this will last forever, lol, xoxo" and ****. We each spent too much time with each other, I didn't focus on school or football as I should/could have because I was getting it in. I missed opportunities in getting into schools I wanted to go to and schools I could have played ball at because I wasn't focused on MY future. Then my JR year of college we went our separate ways and the realization came that I had wasted 5 years on someone who in the end wasn't helping me be the best I could be.
It has all worked out in the end, I have a great wife, job and life...but had I focused on myself on those 5 years I think it would have done me some good.
Its likely you won't think so now, but your education should be your top priority outside of your family and religion (if you have one, if not then that's cool too...not getting into/promoting a discussion about that).
Make friends (male and female) who you can keep around for a lifetime, if things develop when you're both truly ready and feel like you've done what you can to make your life right and feel like a companion is only going to improve it, then make that move.
Here's a tip...
Don't do it.
You're too young, focus on school and extra curriculars (sports, music, etc) things that can improve your chances of getting into a good school to further your education or at least open doors you wouldn't otherwise get to open.
I had a gf from my sophomore year of HS to my Junior year of college and looking back it was nothing but missed opportunities and time wasted. When we started dating we were too young to think anything other than "this will last forever, lol, xoxo" and ****. We each spent too much time with each other, I didn't focus on school or football as I should/could have because I was getting it in. I missed opportunities in getting into schools I wanted to go to and schools I could have played ball at because I wasn't focused on MY future. Then my JR year of college we went our separate ways and the realization came that I had wasted 5 years on someone who in the end wasn't helping me be the best I could be.
It has all worked out in the end, I have a great wife, job and life...but had I focused on myself on those 5 years I think it would have done me some good.
Its likely you won't think so now, but your education should be your top priority outside of your family and religion (if you have one, if not then that's cool too...not getting into/promoting a discussion about that).
Make friends (male and female) who you can keep around for a lifetime, if things develop when you're both truly ready and feel like you've done what you can to make your life right and feel like a companion is only going to improve it, then make that move.
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