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  • DC
    Hall Of Fame
    • Oct 2002
    • 17996

    #31
    Re: Cheating

    One of my best military bud's wife cheated on him while we were in basic training. This was 8 years ago, and as of 2 weeks ago they are still in love. In fact, he said it was after forgiving her that they realized how much they were the ones for each other.
    LOL He is a better "man" than I am. I would have been OUT!
    Concrete evidence/videos please

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    • ezekiel55
      Th*s F*c* C*sh*s Ch*cks
      • Nov 2003
      • 2156

      #32
      Re: Cheating

      Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
      Anyone that says they will NEVER cheat has:

      1. never been in an ultra-compromosing situation to test their faithfulness.

      2. doesn't have the OPTIONS to cheat
      Co-sign....

      You really dont understand the pressure or temptation until you're in the actual situation.

      It tests you to your core, and its not as easy as checking your moral compass and just walking away...

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      • DC
        Hall Of Fame
        • Oct 2002
        • 17996

        #33
        Re: Cheating

        I haven't cheated BEFORE: but I won't say that I will never. I would try my best not to and I would try my best to NOT put myself in that situation. But I would never say never
        Concrete evidence/videos please

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        • stewaat

          #34
          Re: Cheating

          Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
          Anyone that says they will NEVER cheat has:

          1. never been in an ultra-compromosing situation to test their faithfulness.

          2. doesn't have the OPTIONS to cheat
          Thank you sir

          I almost regret not cheating...I wasn't married!

          From now on I'm getting girlfriends...yep...plural. **** what other people say and culture.

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          • CMH
            Making you famous
            • Oct 2002
            • 26203

            #35
            Re: Cheating

            Originally posted by stewaat
            Thank you sir

            I almost regret not cheating...I wasn't married!

            From now on I'm getting girlfriends...yep...plural. **** what other people say and culture.
            Funny thing is, I bet that if you tell some girls this she will still be interested in dating you.

            Not all girls and yea, your chances of having a number of girlfriends will decrease but there are girls that will accept this.

            And all they will end up doing is pretty much "fighting" for your attention by doing more for you. I'm not saying they should know who the other is but if they were aware that they weren't the only one then they'll strive to be the only one.

            One bad thing about that is having the one crazy chick that goes beyond extreme measures to be the only one.

            There are plenty of girls that mess around with guys or go out with guys knowing that the guy is already taken.

            I might try this the next time I'm single.
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            • mgoblue
              Go Wings!
              • Jul 2002
              • 25477

              #36
              Re: Cheating

              Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
              I haven't cheated BEFORE: but I won't say that I will never. I would try my best not to and I would try my best to NOT put myself in that situation. But I would never say never
              I agree...I've never cheated and don't think I would (and would really try not to), but I always say that "never" is a really strong word that's tough to guarantee.

              I also agree that men are meant to look...if you stop admiring the scenery there's something wrong with you.

              I personally wouldn't want to deal with more than 1 woman, that'd be pure hell come "that time of the month" lol...I just think that multiple women would get all catty and fight and I wouldn't want to deal with that. Monogamy's fine for me, but I can understand where others come from.

              I recently was dating multiple women for a while, and while it was fun being so busy, after a while it's a drain on you (financially, mentally, emotionally, etc). I guess part of it is that I want someone I love, care about, etc and it's tough to do that with 2 or more people at once, at least in a romantic sense. If all you're talking about is sex, then that's a different issue and not what I'm going for.

              I also agree that cheaters are total *******s though...If you want someone else you should figure out your current relationship, and either end it or get her to allow someone else...cheating is just slimy, and it's not treating your significant other like you'd want to be treated.
              Last edited by mgoblue; 07-14-2008, 12:56 PM.
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              • Flyboy
                Daydream Believer
                • Jun 2003
                • 11352

                #37
                Re: Cheating

                I've emotionally cheated like twice... which can be contrived as worse than actually physically cheating. I'm not proud of it, but you learn from it and move on.
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                • jmood88
                  Sean Payton: Retribution
                  • Jul 2003
                  • 34639

                  #38
                  Re: Cheating

                  Originally posted by stewaat
                  Thank you sir

                  I almost regret not cheating...I wasn't married!

                  From now on I'm getting girlfriends...yep...plural. **** what other people say and culture.
                  Man I should've cheated but I wouldn't have wanted my girlfriend to cheat so I didn't. I was actually in the same bed as this girl who liked me before I got together with my ex(she was actually the one who hooked us up) but I was all nervous and ****. Now I'm mad about it.
                  Last edited by jmood88; 07-15-2008, 11:08 AM.
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                  • trobinson97
                    Lie,cheat,steal,kill: Win
                    • Oct 2004
                    • 16366

                    #39
                    Re: Cheating

                    Originally posted by jmood88
                    Man I should've cheated but I wouldn't have wanted my girlfriend to cheat so I didn't. I was actually in the same bed as this girl who liked me before I got together with my ex(she was actually the one who hooked us up) but I was all nervous and ****. Now I'm mad about it.
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                    • jmood88
                      Sean Payton: Retribution
                      • Jul 2003
                      • 34639

                      #40
                      Re: Cheating

                      I blame my conscience.
                      Originally posted by Blzer
                      Let me assure you that I am a huge proponent of size, and it greatly matters. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.

                      If I went any bigger, it would not have properly fit with my equipment, so I had to optimize. I'm okay with it, but I also know what I'm missing with those five inches. :)

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                      • jmood88
                        Sean Payton: Retribution
                        • Jul 2003
                        • 34639

                        #41
                        Re: Cheating

                        Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
                        Monogamy isn't a natural mindset. It is a socially constructed concept.
                        So is masculinity, which hasn't stopped you from "educating" people on what it is to be a man.
                        Originally posted by Blzer
                        Let me assure you that I am a huge proponent of size, and it greatly matters. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.

                        If I went any bigger, it would not have properly fit with my equipment, so I had to optimize. I'm okay with it, but I also know what I'm missing with those five inches. :)

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                        • Scottdau
                          Banned
                          • Feb 2003
                          • 32580

                          #42
                          Re: Cheating

                          Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
                          LOL He is a better "man" than I am. I would have been OUT!
                          Even if you love her? It is a lot harder than you realize. When you truly love someone you try to work on things. I don't know what I would do if my wife cheated, but I do know I love her with all my heart. So I'm pretty sure I would take her back. If she kept on doing it then I might have to re-think that.

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                          • Brandon13
                            All Star
                            • Oct 2005
                            • 8915

                            #43
                            Re: Cheating

                            Originally posted by jmood88
                            So is masculinity, which hasn't stopped you from "educating" people on what it is to be a man.
                            Damn, good point.

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                            • DC
                              Hall Of Fame
                              • Oct 2002
                              • 17996

                              #44
                              Re: Cheating

                              @ JMood. I pick and choose the things I try to "educate" folks on.

                              But Scottdau; even if I LOVED her. She cheated on me. I am out. Sorry. There is no recovering from that at all. I can love you and NOT want to be with you.
                              Concrete evidence/videos please

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                              • ThreeKing
                                Banned
                                • Aug 2007
                                • 5852

                                #45
                                Re: Cheating

                                Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
                                @ JMood. I pick and choose the things I try to "educate" folks on.

                                But Scottdau; even if I LOVED her. She cheated on me. I am out. Sorry. There is no recovering from that at all. I can love you and NOT want to be with you.

                                I agree here. If my wife cheated, I'm gone.

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