Great advice all around - as someone who plays on HOF-Legend in offline all of this same stuff is effective there and in high-difficulty DD games. Risk management is everything - you have to be willing to pitch around and even walk guys in order to not leave a mistake pitch out over the plate to get hammered.
I especially like the bit about using multiple relievers in an inning - especially the 3rd. If you think of the game as being balanced towards being 3 innings stamina wise, it means that each out is basically an inning's worth of stamina. So, if you try to run your closer out there for the start of the 3rd with a lead, it's more like you're trying to make him pitch 3 innings instead of just one, and yes - he's probably going to get tired. What I'm doing is going to my setup man Benoit for at least the first out (longer if he gets it without incident), then to Kimbrel for the last two outs, especially if runners get on base.
As for my progress...40% on Extreme which got me the 86 OVR Cepeda. That's probably the last one I do until I get a really elite team (81 Team OVR now) because beating the Dodgers twice in a row on Legend is not easy. I can probably do the Orioles one because it wouldn't be tough in terms of difficulty, the problem is that it's a slog through about 5 teams and I don't want to take any chances losing simmed games late in a run. Yankees and Red Sox will just be painful.
I'm happy getting to that Cepeda and calling it good on Ex Conquest for now.
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