Any Jon & Kate watchers out there?

[fishepa]

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Ahh... I got ya.

He seems awfully mad all the time.

I'd be mad all the time too if I had to live with her.

[Scottdau]

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I'd be mad all the time too if I had to live with her.

I agree, I think the show helped him realize what she is really like. I mean when you are watching it later on and you see how she is treating you; especially in those interviews. I think I would give up too.

[mjb2124]

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I agree with your thoughts. Jon seems more like a "beaten down man" not a "cheater who got caught"...I more get the feeling that Jon's just given up and is going through the motions, I dunno.

Exactly. Watching his body language, he gives off a vibe that he just doesn't care anymore. He's moved on and is ready to take the next step in his life. On the other hand, she gives a completely different vibe...one where she's hurt and isn't ready to move on. I don't think she wanted the divorce as much as he did. If he cheated on her, you'd think she would be filing the papers ASAP.

I'd be mad all the time too if I had to live with her.

Isn't that the truth...

[aholbert32]

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If you had that many kids would you do this show? I know the money is hard to turned down, but I would not do this. I like my life private and I feel like this is pimping your kids. I could be the only one that feels this way, but that is cool.

I dont see it as pimping your kids. Your kids arent performing. The camera is just following them. If it means my kids have college paid for and can attend private school....I wouldnt even hesitate.

[Scottdau]

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I dont see it as pimping your kids. Your kids arent performing. The camera is just following them. If it means my kids have college paid for and can attend private school....I wouldnt even hesitate.

That is cool! I wouldn't do it, but that is just me.

[Scottdau]

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Exactly. Watching his body language, he gives off a vibe that he just doesn't care anymore. He's moved on and is ready to take the next step in his life. On the other hand, she gives a completely different vibe...one where she's hurt and isn't ready to move on. I don't think she wanted the divorce as much as he did. If he cheated on her, you'd think she would be filing the papers ASAP.



Isn't that the truth...

That is a lot harder to say than do. If your wife cheated on you it is easy to say we would leave them. Until it really does happen. That is becomes a lot harder. I don't know what I would do.

[peteykirch]

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I'm shocked no one has talked about that other show, with the family of like 18 kids...

[Scottdau]

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I'm shocked no one has talked about that other show, with the family of like 18 kids...

Yeah my wife watches that show too. I think they have a good marriage.

[mjb2124]

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That is a lot harder to say than do. If your wife cheated on you it is easy to say we would leave them. Until it really does happen. That is becomes a lot harder. I don't know what I would do.

Depends entirely on the person. If my wife cheated on me, I'd be gone in a heartbeat...there's nothing to think about for me because I could never forgive a person for disrespecting me in that manner and there's no point in trying to reconcile something that would be permanently damaged in my eyes. If I cheated on her, I'd be gone in a minute for the same reason. We both know it, but wouldn't cheat on each other because we respect and love each other.

We really don't know what is all going on with Jon and Kate outside of media tabloids and rumors. Honestly we're all gossiping about it now, but we don't know the facts and likely won't unless one of them puts it out in the open.

[Scottdau]

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Depends entirely on the person. If my wife cheated on me, I'd be gone in a heartbeat...there's nothing to think about for me because I could never forgive a person for disrespecting me in that manner and there's no point in trying to reconcile something that would be permanently damaged in my eyes. If I cheated on her, I'd be gone in a minute for the same reason. We both know it, but wouldn't cheat on each other because we respect and love each other.

We really don't know what is all going on with Jon and Kate outside of media tabloids and rumors. Honestly we're all gossiping about it now, but we don't know the facts and likely won't unless one of them puts it out in the open.

You say that now, but trust me it is harder to do that. Any ways I agree with are only basing things off rumor. For except maybe Holbert, he probably knows the best than anyone about them two. I still feel bad for the kids though.

[mjb2124]

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You say that now, but trust me it is harder to do that. Any ways I agree with are only basing things off rumor. For except maybe Holbert, he probably knows the best than anyone about them two. I still feel bad for the kids though.

Hmm, not entirely Scott. Trust me, I think I know what I'd do better than you would!

Like I said, it depends on the person. I completely understand why it's difficult to do, but there's no doubt in my mind, I'd file for divorce if my wife ever cheated on me (and I'm sure I'm not the only one). That's not to say I wouldn't be upset or sad about the situation, but I could never look at my wife the same way knowing she was screwing some other dude while we were married. I just couldn't do it. I suppose forgiveness isn't one of my strongest qualities.

[Scottdau]

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Hmm, not entirely Scott. Trust me, I think I know what I'd do better than you would!

Like I said, it depends on the person. I completely understand why it's difficult to do, but there's no doubt in my mind, I'd file for divorce if my wife ever cheated on me (and I'm sure I'm not the only one). That's not to say I wouldn't be upset or sad about the situation, but I could never look at my wife the same way knowing she was screwing some other dude while we were married. I just couldn't do it. I suppose forgiveness isn't one of my strongest qualities.

I know you know yourself, but trust me Mike I know you better. You would work so through it. Now if it is was something she kept on doing, then you probably wouldn't be able to take that. But you marry someone for good and bad times. I will say one thing it would be tough, but I love my wife too much, so yes I would forgive her. If you can't that is cool too. You have all the grounds to split.

[mjb2124]

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I know you know yourself, but trust me Mike I know you better. You would work so through it. Now if it is was something she kept on doing, then you probably wouldn't be able to take that. But you marry someone for good and bad times. I will say one thing it would be tough, but I love my wife too much, so yes I would forgive her. If you can't that is cool too. You have all the grounds to split.

I hate to tell you, but you're wrong. You don't know me at all aside from a screen name on the internet. I agree about marrying someone for good/bad times. No one is perfect, but sleeping with another guy isn't something I can forgive and forget. It would only cause further issues down the road (I have a tendency to hold grudges for things like that).

I don't deny it would be tough, but for me, it's something I'd have to do. We're all programmed different and I'd never think differently of someone either way.

[ExtremeGamer]

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I think he got violent with her over the weekend, not hitting, but maybe screaming or raising a fist.

And I'm with Mike, if my wife cheated on me, I would be out and the divorce papers filed. I would never be able to forgive that..EVER.

[JohnnytheSkin]

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And I'm with Mike, if my wife cheated on me, I would be out and the divorce papers filed. I would never be able to forgive that..EVER.

Yeah, cheating is one thing that I could never get over. My wife would fly the coop in a heartbeat if I cheated on her as well. You just can't earn that respect back.